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writes:I'm a 20 year old girl and becoming crazy because of my heart racing and chaos in my mind. It's a long story but, in November 2010 i fell headlessly in love with this boy, he lives 20 minutes driving away from me, so i didn't saw him for a very long time. Nonetheless we talkes a lot on hotmail and facebook and at new year's eve he even send me an message, even he didn't had my number before that, he asked some friend who was with his group of friends that night. WHAT IS THE PROBLEM? :He has a girlfriend, but he seems to like me too, because i heard of my girl who was with him that night that he was talked about me a lot and asked about me frequently. So however i was trying to forget about him (what was really hard, but what was the right thing to do because of his girlfriend), now i am totally back in the love-state i suppose. This also has to do with the fact that last weekend i saw him for a second time and again it was just wonderfull..AND NOW I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO :::should i go for it? and how do i do that?should i - again - try tot get over him? :(thanks , love , kisses !
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reader, PatientlyWaiting1  +, writes (12 January 2011):
I would say if you want him then let him come to you do not pursue him. When he comes to you let him contact you most of the time, be nice and sweet and reply. Let him tell you he likes you first, let him take you out yada yada yada. After you are sure he is putting in effort for you that is when you hit him with the "I can sense that you are begining to like me and it is a good feeling, I just want you to understand that while you are in a relationship this can't go any further." Do not make it a huge deal because she is not his wife. But it is his job to resolve that himself. Never get irate, or nag him about her. Just do not let things go to far while he has a girlfriend. And remember DON'T PURSUE HIM.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (12 January 2011):
 Yup, he sounds like a charming player. He got the reaction he was hoping for, but like thewalkin'dude said, no good will come from this.
He has a girlfriend, so he should be off limits to you. It takes two to cheat, so don't be that girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2011): No, you shouldn't "go for it". The simple reason being, he's already in a relationship.
This guy probably has many girls on the go and sounds like a bit of a player. I'd advice you to stop contacting him and move on because no good will come of it.
Even if he dumped her (which he won't) who's to say he won't do the same thing to you? Move on.
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