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B/f seems to want me to challenge the bounds

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Question - (12 January 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 January 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have had a bf for 3yrs and I love him lots and would never hurt him. I am one where I like to play it where I wouldnt do anything to him that I wouldnt like myself. However, he WANTS me to do this stuff, cos he's treated me bad before and wants me to lose my insecurity and he even WANTS to feel possessive and jealous, because I'm so good to him he never has to feel insecure. But this guy from the office asked for a lift hom next week and I dont know what to say because I would worry if my bf was giving a girl a lift home [based on our past this is relevant worrying]. What do I say?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2011):

Just live a normal life. Giving a guy a lift is normal, it doesn't must mean you are going to have an affair with him! I'm not sure what the problem is here, but trust is important. If your partner, or you, or worried about everyday interactions with people, then your relationship is on stoney ground I would say.

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