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*ingerella5992
writes:I have been with my boyfriend for 3 and half years on and off and now on for one year and one month. I can't tell whether I am staying with him because it is comfortable or it is because I want to. I feel like as I am writing this I was to be with him.. but there are so many times where all there is in my mind is question after question saying " is it because of this? am i attracted to him? blah blah"I just need some advice. I think it might be because I am depressed because In my heart I feel like I love him and want to be with, because i do genuinely. but my head is disagreeing.. so anyone who has had this problem message and answer please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2011): If your head and your heart are in communication, you have a choice which way to go and this can often feel like too comfortable of an arrangement if you are not used to it. Trust the inner communication and then have that talk with him. Disagreements have been known to cause depression so communication is key and you both can find an answer together.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 January 2011):
 Nobody can really tell you what to do here but yourself. You need to think with your head and ask yourself is it a good relationship, does he treat you well and respect you and make you feel special about yourself.
If you think that you are depressed then maybe you should visit your local health centre to get diagnosed and speak to someone about it.
From time to time some people have doubts about there relationship but it doesnt mean that you should break up, just do what you feel is the right thing to do. The answer has to come from you and only you.
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