What should I do with my girlfriend, stay or leave?

A male age 36-40, *nmm24 writes:

me and my girlfriend have a for the most part a good relationship, me and her know what each other is feeling, she a Gemini, so i heard about the split personality, like 2 people, but back to what i was saying, she talkes to her ex's saying they are her friends, they are 700+ miles away so i know its nothing physical, she has her phone out there so if needed i can look in it, but i dont know why she does this, she cant talk to me for nothing relationship wise, she actually told me that her mind is in the relationship, not her heart, she said her friends are an important factor in her life, but it sounds like to me they are drug attics, and bums, they know she aint single but still contact her constant at all hours of the night, its 3 guys total thats her ex's, and her regular female friends and family to be specific, but its almost like she is playin me like a fool, she half ass ignores me when she on facebook and texting, but when her phone is down and the computer is off, its like im the only one that exist, but when she has either of the 2, i can talk and its like it dont register, i thought at first she couldnt multitask, plus she has her ex's high school ring, an instead of sending it, she said she wants to give it to him in person, i dont get it, its an ex, fuck em, there an ex for a reason, i dont have no females callin or texting me unless they are family, i know she had a bad breakup 6 years ago, but she has a 3 year old son that i help take care of, bills are always paid, but she gets mad at me for me drinkin, she used to drink often, she drinks like 1 time a week now, so i know it aint the beer, i know she said her ex was an alcoholic, but i aint i dont drink often, but thats one thing she trows in my face, i told her it bothers me with her ex calling, and dif guy friends, but its like she dont care, she been single for a lil over a year, she went on dates but nothing serious, nothing physical, but i dont know what to expect in the future, she says she isnt a cheater, and she would break it off before seeing someone else, we still have sex 2 to 4 times a week, but she wants to move back to the city were all her friends and ex's are , should i be concerned.... should i stop caring, should i save up and leave her, we only been living together for about 2 months, i love her, but im starting to hate her ways, she changed a lot in the last month, she also says she misses her family there, but i aint a family or a people person, i been on my own since i was 17 i have my reasons im the way i am, but she kinda the opposite, im a pieces, but im only half what the zodiac says i am, but please be truthfull and honest with any answers....

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