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writes:OK, I had an interesting experience recently. There has been a girl who is stunningly beautiful and very sexy whom I have known. She is always being sought after by guys.But I got to know her with no physical contact, in a friendly way. I began to realize how selfish and self-centered she is. And how she treats others in a manipulative way. And suddenly.....she was not attractive to me anymore! I honestly had no desire to kiss her.Another girl whom I did not feel was attractive recently showed herself to be a very caring person, asking about something that happened to me which I had pushed to the back of my mind. Suddenly, her inner quality of thoughtfulness made me attracted to her.Has anyone else ever had this experience, where your interaction with a girl colors your perception like this, and when you get to know her her attractiveness changes? Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2011): ...Otherwise known as the phenomenon of "thinking with your heart rather than your dick"...
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reader, BettyBoup  +, writes (13 January 2011):
 Yup! This is the difference between inner and outer beaty. Some people appear very attractive on the surface, but this masks an ugly interior. While other people who may not appear special at first, are truly wonderful, beautiful people inside. That is the wonder of the human race. We are all so wonderful and diverse. There is so much more to each person than first appearences, and the best thing is it takes a long, long time to truely discover all of the true inner beauty of people, while, some say, over time the initial outer beauty fades.
But beauty is all relative my dear. What you think of as attractive is personal to you. Some people are simply of so much beauty inner or outer, that it is impossible for most people to not see it, and in others it is much harder to see sometimes. But everyone is beautiful. The fun part is learning to see the beauty in everyone, because each person is entirely unique :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2011): Many will say the source of a girls attractiveness is how she takes care of her pets and that belief is very common but not quite accurate. It's about how she grooms herself and the opposite sex imprinting from when she was a newborn. It's best advised to talk to a girl about her inner qualities upfront so you don't get fooled.
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reader, Kilcardy +, writes (13 January 2011):
Oh...I've met so many physically attractive women who...the minute they open their mouths...they turn into Shrek. Physical beauty is a fine thing, and makes you notice someone initially. But, if they have no beauty inside then the outside beauty is just wasted in my opinion.
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