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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. We have a wonderful sex life. We have occasionally watched porn together and I noticed that watching him watch porn turned me on more than actually watching it myself. Over about a six month period we used the "fantasy" of me watching him have sex with another woman to help heighten our intimate experiences. I'm not sure how we turned the fantasy details into reality (explicit) sexual details about his past partners but it has. Now, normally we have amazing sex, but on occasion, I have to admit the stereotypical female moments come out and I don't feel like having sex. But all he has to do is touch me the right way and whisper details of a one night stand, or a past g/f and it gets me going every time! I've searched online and haven't found any information on this from a woman...any insite would be appreciated!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2013): I have the exact same turn on. She's had more partners than me (12 to my 4). I just get super hot when she talks about her past. I think it may fire up my competitive side. It's also a turn on that she was being sexually aggressive.
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reader, omfgbabygirl  +, writes (13 January 2011):
I think that if you really like this guy, you'll want to do anything to please him, just like his past sexual encounters.
I know that this could get me going as well, because I love to really pleasure my sexual partner.
But if that's the ONLY thing that gets you off, then I think you have to re-assess your true feelings for him. Your true motives, whether you know it or not, might be to attempt to sexually conquer him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2011): Ive found myself doing the same thing..I havent discussed it with him, and he has no clue but when we have sex I often fantasize about him and his past partners. I think for me its just the thought of pleasing him that turns me on...i definately wouldnt want to hear him talk about it and would be really upset if he did.
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