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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I started liking this one boy when he politely opened the door for me at pep band one night. We've talked a little, but not a lot. We have talked enough that he knows my name and I've gotten to be friends with his friends (who I had been friends with years before), but he barely talks to me even when I'm hanging with him and his friends. He never starts conversation and usually, I'm outgoing, but now that I like him, I'm afraid of saying hi to him in the halls until we become familiar, but the way things are going, that will take a LONG time. What should I do?Now that I like him, I've become paranoid that I'll sound weird trying to talk to him especially since I still don't know him that well and we only have one class together--band.He seems to be really close with his best friend, so I'm wondering if girls aren't even on his radar right now and if I should just cool it or if I just take a chance and start conversation with him in the hall on the way to class.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2011): I am the original poster of the question. :) I just didn't feel like making an account since I think this'll be the only question I need to ask.
He's not...shy like it sounds from my post. He seems confident enough, just...not outgoing haha. I mean, he has a few girls-who-are-friends, but he mostly hangs out with guy-friends. I'm not sure if that means anything.
I'm always torn between the "guys like a chase" and "it's okay for girls to make the first move" arguments.
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