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writes:I'll start from the beginning. I'm 16 years old and completely in love with my 33 year old teacher. I know what you're all thinking. "Oh it's just a crush you silly girl!" and it's not, trust me, it's really not. I've experienced crushes and this really isn't one. I've now liked him for 3 years, and the feeling I get when I see him, is absoutley unbelievable, I couldn't even put it into words. I've never experienced this feeling seeing anyone else. My friends have noticed he acts around me and the way he looks. I've seen the way he acts with other girls, and it's not the same. My friend even said he was being extremley flirty with me the other day! (She isn't the type just to lie about these things) We seem to have these staring moments, and they're incredible; we look deep into each others eyes, and sorry it sounds cheesy/corny; but it feels like we're the only people in the room and it's just absoutly unbelievable... and no one has ever made me feel this way before.. except him! Believe me I didn't choose to feel this way for him, it would be alot easier if I didn't feel like this, cos he's on my mind permantly. I'm not some stupid girl who's actually gonna go for him, he's a teacher I know this and I wouldn't want him to risk his job for me, and I wouldn't want to affect my role at college. So I'll carry on smiling + thinking of him, I just want to know if any other girls are having the same experiences, and have any advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2010): Yeah, it's hard when something like this happens. I'm in exactly the same situation. What makes it worst is the fact that she's female like me. She's only like 10 years older than me as well. She doesn't even teach me so I don't really know why I feel this way about her. I concentrate on my school work instead, so that I don't drive myself insane over this whole thing.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (29 September 2010):
You have no idea how glad I am that you're sensible enough to realize it can't go anywhere. We have so many teenage girls on here that think they can make a teacher fall for them, forgetting that it's illegal and won't happen. Just sit back and enjoy what you feel. One day you'll feel something a hundred times stronger for a guy you love even more.
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reader, Philosophyzer  +, writes (29 September 2010):
 He isn't flirting with you. He is just looking at you, wondering if you are paying attention or understanding the material. He'd lose his job and everything he has worked for in life. There will be no future in this. Sounds harsh, but that's reality.
Love is when you are in a relationship with someone and it is reciprocated with kind words, acts of affection, and a likeness of minds. Getting butterflies when your teacher walks into the room or making eye contact with you is just a crush, even if you feel that your attraction to him is out of this world. We all have one teacher who is so appealing in so many ways. Enjoy the eye candy of your teacher and keep it at that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2010): I was in love with my teacher until I found out he was engaged. :( Thats how my crush ended.
He was really nice to look at, so i enjoyed class.
Ehhh, 33 isnt sooo great. Im sure there are cool people to chill with, closer to your age-hang out with them! Teenagers know what's fun and hip! Enjoy being a teenager, while you still are one! Enjoy this phase of life now, because it goes by very quickly!!
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reader, Miamine +, writes (28 September 2010):
 You love your teacher, your not going to do anything except think of him and smile... No problem, that's perfectly fine. You love him, that's how you feel, so enjoy it while it lasts.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2010): I know EXACTLY how you are feeling hun!
Ive liked him for 3 years too...I picked the subject he was teaching purely because of him and he treated me so different to all the other girls!..he had cute little nicknames for me which he still uses to this day even though he stopped teaching me this year. Just the way he smiles and looks at me makes me weak at the knees and Im blushing now thinking about it. My friends say the he has a soft spot for me and my other teachers tell me that he talks about me frequently..people may think that Im some obsessed 16 year old but Im not..I really admire this man..I love everything about him..I love the way he makes me feel. Im gonna stick it out and continue our friendship and if its meant to be I will wait till I finish school and take things from there..the last thing I want to do is get him in trouble and get him fired.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (28 September 2010):
 Good lord check out our Forbidden Love section off the main page! We get hundreds of schoolgirl crush posts and almost every single one says they are sure it's true love. But it isn't, it's a crush. And that's exactly what this is. Yes it is Yes it is Yes it is Yes it is Yes it is Yes it is Yes it is Yes it is Yes it is
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