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writes:OK. I like a certain Mr. X. I asked him once to check out my thesis and was unhappy he didn't get back to me. But when I asked him he said I had checked it out that day itself and it was good!He is extremely friendly and nice whenever we have talked alone. A patient listener and very approachable attitude. He told me that I could call him up any time for any help and don;t have to worry about bothering him. I could also text him if need be and he gave me two numbers. He also helped me once with an urgent matter of my personal interest in a jiffy. I like him really bad. Its alright if we can't together. But it doesn't change my feelings.I have no idea what feeling he has got for me.He has assured his assistance at ANY time. He never gives off his stance as a senior and I love him for it.He always texts me back.Great listening, tilted head, great eye contact and beautiful heart melting toothy smiles. OH and I have seen that minute flicker of his eyebrows many times we met. But they are masked very soon. Last time he made an eye contact initially when we met, talked something and when I was leaving he ignored me totally.I don't know if he does this to everyone. But this one year long I have very rarely seen him smile to his clients.What do you think? Why would a man behave with a woman in such a nice way? Only because he is genuinely nice and helpful. Am I the only one bowled over genuine gestures of friendliness?
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reader, Libra1963  +, writes (3 October 2010):
 Sorry I had a typo in my response. I meant to say - dont chase him. I am glad you are not. As I said before. The guy has an interest in you. Take it slowly. The relationships develop from friendsships first. Thats how you will get to know him.
If he does not ask you out, why dont you be bold and suggest something so that youi can take and get to know more about him. This would certainly spped up the process and get you out of your agonising state.
Good luck!
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reader, CupidsPrincess1 +, writes (30 September 2010):
CupidsPrincess1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI can't possibly let him know. I don't chase him at all. I feel like it will scare him off. I don't want to be in his life as I don't know if he has someone already somewhere waiting for him. I can't seem to make up my mind. I am not sure what to do. Day by day it feels like I am growing more and more fond of him without any idea of what is he.
Guys, please tell me would a man behave with a woman in such a nice way if he doesn't like her and think about her at all? Or is this the way you be friendly and kind? Please please!
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reader, Libra1963 +, writes (28 September 2010):
When I was reading this, it sounded so much like something I have been going through. Yes - I do think he likes you. He has given you a lot of attention and his numbers and sounded attraction body language.
Does chase him. Let him continue liking you. Men like the chase. Continue to be nice but show him you have a lfe too and are busy.
You might want to enquire with other people who know him whether or not he is free as he may be holding back abit if he is in a relationship.
Good luck.
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