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writes:My ex broke up with me for her ex after she went to see him in hospital after he got beaten up. I had done nothing wrong to deserve this.The last time we spoke was when I told her that I had been threatened by him (he sent me emails telling me to stay well away or hed beat me up). I really miss her and I cant stop thinking about it all. I text her last week and had no reply.its been 3 weeks since it all happened and I don't feel any better about it all.What do i do? I really want to speak to her because it ended so badly for me :(
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (29 September 2010):
I wouldn't go near this girl in a million years. It can get any better than it already is. She hurt you by dumping her for her ex, who threatened you. So he's a lousy guy, and she's not all that much better. Don't even go near her. She doesn't deserve your attention.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2010): He said for you to stay away or he will beat you up. This may sound crazy, but do you think it's possible that he beat himself up to try to win your ex back? This is not normal, but I am not surprised at how far a person would go to get what they want. Did she previously show any signs before the incident that she was not over her ex?
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reader, fordyboy +, writes (28 September 2010):
 I think she has been either forced or has developed the mindset that you are the cause of this fella's beating even though this is not the case. Do you know where she lives and would it be worth writing her a letter to explain how you feel!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (28 September 2010):
 Aw how horrible for you? Thats just awful. I have to be honest with you am afraid but its obvious she wants to be with her ex, so i think you need to just not try and contact her, we all go through life and get heart broken at least once, it doesnt get any easier but we need to keep going, there will be some girl out there for you that loves you and wont want to be with anyone else, but dont go searching yet take time out to try and be happy on your own first. It takes time for a broken heart to heal. Just try and take your mind of it by going out with friends or doing things you enjoy doing, and believe me although it doesnt seem like it now, some morning you will wake up and realise she is not the first thought to go through your mind and bit by bit you will stop thinkin about her alot. Good luck sweetie
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