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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My husband has a problem with sexting... This is the 3rd time I've found out. It's heart breaking. Some argue it's not cheating, but to me it is. And after 3 times I see it's not gonna stop, and it will lead to something else if it hasn't already? We have 3 kids together been together 20yrs. I don't know how to live with out him. I don't work, so no me money. I don't have no where I can go with my kids. I don't know what to do? I love him YES, but in love with him no. I don't want my kids to think if I leave, I didn't try and I don't want them to think if I stay I'm stupid and most definately don't want them to think it's Ok.... The first time was last Christmas- he was doin it with a high school friend of mine we reconnected on fb with- she called n told me... Then it was an older woman I just happened to walk pass his cell alerting a text message. picked it up and there it was!! Then today I got on the laptop that was signed into his name and there was his mail??? I know- either leave, or quit whinning and deal with it. But no where to go and I don't know how?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (28 September 2010):
 Yes this is cheating it may not be physical but it still hurts just as much. My heart goes out to you this is such a horrible situation to be in especially when there are three children to look after, but you need to get out of this somehow you cant live your life like this, tell him its over go and talk to your local council or housing authority and see what is available out there for you. If you have savings between you and you divorce you are intitled to half of everything and if the house you are in at the moment is bought then you are intitled to half of that as well, tell him you cant cope anymore and that either he moves out or else he leaves you and three children homeless, scare him, but go and look in to what you are entitled to, you make be shocked at what the local authorities or social welfare can do to help you until you get back on your feet again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2010): well i personally think that you either walk now or foreveer okay you have give plenty of chances 3 in fact talk to him tell him if it doesn't stop then you are going to move out and take the kids with you ..
i think that it will be better foe kids if you leave sooner rather than later so they don't feel the tension or think that ths is normal or right ..
good luck
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