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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My girlfriend left me about two months ago due to me being unfaithful. We've spoken every day since. Sometimes it's good, and other times not so much. However, we both still love each other very much. A couple of weeks ago, we ended up getting together and having sex. She maintains she wants never to be with me again, mixed signals aside. I'm aware she may just be using me as a security blanket, but my question doesn't concern that. Simply put: she's late and panicking, and I can't seem to find the words or actions to comfort her, as she's rightfully boxed me out. Though I deserve that, it's also very clear that she needs consoling from me. What can I do or say that will help ease her mind without me overstepping my bounds or making her feel any more pressure than she already feels?
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reader, toomuch stress +, writes (29 September 2010):
 I am a little concerned if you're aware it may very likely not be your child if she is pregnant. Keeping that in mind you seem as if you have a good head on your shoulders by the way you realize your making her feel pressured or uncomfortable. Realizing that is the first sign. It could very easily just be a scare, many girls can testify to that. But if not, the best thing you can do is give her support IF and WHEN she is wanting it. And trust me, if she is pregnant,she will come around.
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