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writes:In the past couple of days Ive come to realise that all my exes (4) have got new girlfriends and for some reason it really bothers me. Apart from one (the love of my life am still not over him), the other 3 I dont even have feelings for anymore so why do I feel so eaten up with jealousy?Im single and have been for a while. Ive come to notice my exes new girlfriends through facebook. I dont want to delete my exes in case they notice and it will look like Im bothered. (However, the love of my life has already deleted me)! I just feel so unwanted at the moment. Im not getting any male attention and it really irks me when i see my exes write lovey crap on their girlfriends walls (I dont stalk by the way - it appears in my newsfeed).I think the only reason I feel like this is cos they all left me. They were the ones that dumped me. And I took it badly each time. But it just makes me feel that theres something wrong with me that I havnt made any relationship work and now they are all head over heels for others girls. I hate feeling like this.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (28 September 2010):
 They're ex's, they're not friends. Why on earth are you putting yourself through this? Don't worrying about them noticing or not, delete them from your wall. The "love of your life" did this, it was the right thing to do, you should do it too. BTW darling, the "love of your life" isn't that guy, you simply haven't met him yet. Trust me on this one!!!
Delete your ex's today, right now, before you have the chance to talk yourself out of it. You aren't improving your humor or your day-to-day circumstances by continuing these residual feelings of jealousy just because your pride is telling you not to delete them! Kick them out of your head by getting them off your page. You will probably be feeling a whole lot better by this time next week than you feel now if you do it!!!
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reader, Lucysmiles +, writes (28 September 2010):
This is about your problem with letting go.
Yes, it may bother you that your ex's seem to have found love before you, but you must realize that obsessing over the fact could be the reason your not moving on.
Just try to forget about all of this business and go on living your life, you will find someone- but not with being hung up on your ex's.
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