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writes:Hi :) I'd REALLY appreciate any advice anyone could give me.I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and I am very happy. We have a great relationship and it's very healthy and happy in every way :)There is a problem though.. his ex girlfriend. They have been broken up for almost THREE years, after a four year relationship. However, she seems unable to let him go. She texts him frequently, and approaches him on nights out. Since we have gotten together she has constantly hassled me, throwing drinks and glasses at me on nights out, spreading lies about me, and physically assaulting me.We have constantly ignored her behaviour because we both feel that by reacting, she will have gotten what she wanted. Now though, she has started to put loads of photos of her and my boyfriend, when they were a couple all over Facebook and it's upsetting me. I don't understand why she's doing this because she has been threatened with a retraining order in the past by him, has a boyfriend of 18 months, and has been alienated by a lot of people over her behaviour. I'm just soooo sick of her and her crap now.. ignoring her really isn't working and I don't know what else I can do. Can someone please help?Thank you so much xx
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (28 September 2010):
 She obviously hasnt gotten over your boyfriend as is jelous of you, yeah my advice would have been to ignore her but this obviously hasnt worked, as for the photos on facebook try to ignore them as not alot you can do, well if your boyfriend is on face book get him to report the photos to the director of facebook. If she verbally or physically attacks you again then you need to go to the gaurds and tell them what is happening, make a diary of every thing she doesn towards you or your boyfriend so that the gaurds have plenty of reason and tell them you want a restrainging order as she just wont stop, leave it then in the hands of the court am afraid thats all you can really do.
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