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writes:So with me and my partner it is him who isnt up for sex as much as me (he can go up to three weeks without sex and be happy) So i was wondering, in your relationship is it the female or male that doesnt want sex as much as the other?Whats the longest they have gone without sex?and is there any way to get them to have sex more often? Reply to this Question
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reader, lee05 +, writes (6 October 2010):
lee05 is verified as being by the original poster of the question is there any way to make his sex drive higher?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2010): Hi I'm a 33 year old man, married 12 years together 18 ya high school sweethearts, I must say I don't get it. I could have sex everyday as for her 3 or 4 days a week suffice. I don't complain we do have kids so its hard to somtimes. Point is I have never heard of a guy not wanting sex all the time. Most guys complain its the other way around. I think he may just have a low sex drive. Don't know if this is helpfull but good luck!
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reader, bruce lee  +, writes (28 September 2010):
 Yes, there are all sorts of reasons why people don't want to have sex.
But maybe you said something recently to him that he found offensive and he's a bit angry about it.
Have you had any arguments lately? He might be trying to teach you a lesson if you have.
I hope it all works out though (whatever the problem is).
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reader, priyankap  +, writes (28 September 2010):
Hi there,i am personally going through the exact same thing.My bf doesn't want to have sex on his own will anymore.I try and try so hard but it doesn't seem to catch his eye again like when we firstly hooked up.I have made up my mind to stop trying and observe what will his move be.We as girls wouldn't want to seem to desperate for it as well.What i would suggest is,sit him down,do not be affaird to let him know how much you 'like having sex with him'if that doesn't work then lay back and enjoy the show.Laugh about if you have to because remember that at the end of the day,if he is sincere with you he will come back into bed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2010): Now i assume this partner is a man, so I'll give you some advice. This guy is a male. Our brains eat and sleep sex. Now it seems like this guy might just need a little help making a move. If you crawl on top of him at night in some new sexy underwear and he doesn't want to have sex with you, I'd be worried more about who else he's sleeping with.
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