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writes: just a question about men and orgams, when a women orgasms i describe it you get a lovely feeling inside, its like a sneeze that i wish would last a lot longer than it does, usually a few seconds and in that few seconds is a real realease feeling, is it the same with a man, does he orgasm everytime he cums, does it feel the same for a man, or can they fake it like some women can, just to make there women feel good about she has made him orgasm, if a man usually moans when he cums does this mean he has had a orgasm.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks all for your great replys, and believe me i have learnt a lot from all these answers, about men and orgasms, and a lot i did not know, so i am so pleased i have asked this question. THANKS TO ALL.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2010): Lets see, yes, men can have a sort of orgasm without cumming. I dont think it is possible to cum without an orgasm, but I have shot some pre cum when I got very close but did not have a full orgasm (sucks by the way). My orgasms are not always tied to my ejaculation. Sometimes the cum comes out several seconds before, sometimes after. Usually before.
A male orgasm (to me anyway), starts out with the penis swelling rock hard, then a kind of tickle in your prostrate, kinda like you have to pee. Then the orgasm is an electric rush that sorta starts in the penis...mainly the head and the base, wraps all around your body, and races back to the penis again as the convulsions start in the base of your penis and the semen shoots out. The more spurts, the more pleasurable it tends to feel...which is dependent on semen volume, which is usually higher the longer its been. It is most pleasurable when the orgasm builds several times before it happens, and it has been a while since my last orgasm. Then the surge and convulsions are intense. Sometimes the orgasm seems to originate from different places...the base of the spine, behind the knees, etc, sometimes more than one place. I've felt it in my forehead before. Its crazy fun.
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reader, daletom  +, writes (29 September 2010):
A lot of research says that the physical sensations of orgasm are about the same for men as for women. The article "Male and Female Orgasm: Not so different?" at http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/body-sense/201004/male-and-female-orgasm-not-so-different summarizes these findings.
Men's orgasms almost always include ejaculation ("cumming", the release of semen from the penis). From time to time (and, I'm sure, from one person to another) the amount of of semen released can vary a lot - from a few drops (less than a teaspoon?), to several spurts (perhaps about a tablespoon?). On a few occasions I have experienced ejaculation without orgasm. (Almost all of these times happened when I was in my 40's; I don't know if that's significant.) A little more frequently I have had an orgasm without ejaculation. I think it always happened at the end of a series of several orgasms in a fairly short time. It's easily explained that I had been "emptied", and didn't have any semen that could be ejaculated, but I didn't even have the sensations of trying to ejaculate.
With a little observation and practice I suppose a man can learn to create the bodily motions and sounds of his orgasm, and perform them "on command". I don't think he could fake anything like ejaculation, though. I have certainly never faked an orgasm - some guys might want to do this to please their partner; others may want to do it as an excuse for ending a lovemaking session.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2010): the feeling of an orgasm for a woman is when you reach that height and then to let go best release ever,even better when you have triple orgasms and it takes a very special guy to do this and he knows who he is
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reader, mrvhappy  +, writes (28 September 2010):
Hi,
Thats not strictly true. I can orgasm/cum but still be erect, and maintain this several times over. I dont know how a guy can fake his orgasm if orgasm = cumming!!
So a woman can always tell if he has orgasm/cum by his ejaculate!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionto the anonymous male reader answer, when you said that you have a earth shaking experience, and for one women to make you reach that point, i hope you grabbed her with both hands and never has let go of her, and i did not know you see that a man can cum again after a few mins either, i thought once cum thats it, i think me and my man have a deep love bond, when making love got to say its magical and its always like the first time always, we never get board of touching and caressing each other, when it comes to the crucial point, he usually moans in delight, and then we are both left there all hot and sweaty out of breath feeling, so yes i think its a deep love bond, just a querrie what does it mean when you say your man should be off the charts when hes with you, cause i have never heard that saying before, i am thinking in his very happy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for all your replys and i have learnt something now about guys and orgasm that i never really knew and didnt know men can fake them i always thought that once a man cums thats his orgasm oh well maybe not all the time and i have never heard of the refractory period i take it thats when it goes all limp and cant continue in other words it has a mind of its own thanks again all for your replys and i think its good we can ask these questions cause today i have learnt something from the replys i got.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2010): I can tell you that I orgasm every time I come and I've had the same, euphoric feeling of earth shaking orgasms without ejaculating. Only one woman has made me do that in my lifetime!
It is a feeling that sweeps over your whole body (at least for me) and I can easily be brought to another one pretty quickly. Even with ejaculation within another 20mins. So I don't know if that if the case with your man, but if this is connected with deep love for one another, your man should be off the charts when he is with you!
Hope this helps!
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reader, dirtball +, writes (28 September 2010):
 I think you'll find that everyone is different. I've faked orgasms in the past. I knew my GF was satisfied and I couldn't feel myself being close. I pretended to cum and then cuddled. The problem is that it's hard to hide the fact that you still have an erection. After an orgasm, most men enter a refractory period when they cannot maintain an erection. It is difficult to explain why, if you had an orgasm, you are still hard.
An orgasm is hard to explain. It is a very intense euphoric feeling. It affects your whole body if it's a good one. They can also vary in intensity.
I do envy some women's ability to have multiple orgasms. As much as I've tried, I've only accomplished that feat once myself. Usually after an orgasm the refractory period takes over and the penis is too sensitive to continue.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionlike your answer caringguy, when i think, i myself dont think that a womans orgasm last that long, but i suppose with the right partner, can orgasm again, and yes i suppose mens orgasm are even shorter, never thought that way, so here i am complaining that they dont last long, when a mans is even shorter, hope this answer makes sense and thanks again for your reply.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2010): I think it must feel different. I wouldn't describe it as a "lovely feeling inside, like a sneeze." It's way more intense, like 7-10 or more "convulsions" of pleasure one after the other, that leave you feeling drained after. A guy can't orgasm without "cumming" and vice versa. They always go together. So it's harder for a guy to fake it, and with things like oral sex or hand jobs it would be impossible.
If it really felt exactly the same for girls, I think they'd be a lot more into sex. Oh well.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (28 September 2010):
Men can't always have an orgasm, and yes we can fake, but usually it happens far more easily for us so it's not a worry. My regret is that it's not as long as a woman's!
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