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writes:I have been married for 7 years. Not in love any more! I have recently being seeing a married man for 3 months, neither one of us plan on leaving our spouses for the other. Even though I am trying to figure out how to get out of my marriage. My questions is why is the person that I am seeing starting to ignore me and make up excuses as to why he can not see me. Something has changed and I am not sure how to deal with it. I do not want to pursue him too much and just seem like a controlling school girl. I realy do care for him and enjoy his company. I just need him as a friend right now more than anything. I am 49 and he is 46. Should I just ignore him and let this pass or is this a sign that maybe he has replaced me?
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reader, hah +, writes (30 September 2010):
Yeah, some people may call it "GUILT" which is something that seems to be in short supply with you.
If you were a guy, I'd say grow a pair and tell your wife you've been screwing around on her and then follow the path THAT brings you down, but you're not a guy... So, instead let me tell you to pull up your big girl panties and do the same thing.
Good luck with your philandering
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reader, dirtball +, writes (28 September 2010):
 LMAO. So, you're trying to figure out a way out of your marriage huh? Well, I've got a great idea. Tell him you're having an affair. First, because it's the truth, and second because he diserves to know that truth.
Now you're concerned because your adulterous lover isn't contacting you as much anymore. Let him go. Maybe his wife found out and he is trying to work things out with her. Maybe he did replace you. Truth is, he's not a good guy to be willing to do that to his wife and your husband. Let him go and work on your relationship. Get the divorce you're seeking before you start looking for outside adventures.
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