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writes:i'm 38 years old and i fell in love with my brother in law who moved with us recently, my husband is always travelling and doesn't have much time for me or my kids, who became really attached to their uncle, he is much younger than me and passing through a divorce, the problem is that our relation became so intimate and i cant imagine my life without him and the problem is that i stopped loving my husband since a long time as we are living together only because of the kids but i cant stand the idea of being unfaithful so i decided that i should end my marriage to respect my husband and myself but i cant stay away from his brother.help me take the right decision
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reader, TimmD  +, writes (28 September 2010):
 You should not let your feelings for your brother in law influence your marriage issues. Focus on communicating your issues with your husband and try to fix it if possible. If you include your brother in law into your marriage problems you will severely complicate things and you may end up tearing the entire family apart. Either your husband and his brother will end up not talking to each other or you will end up not talking to either of them.
Deal with your marriage first and foremost.
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