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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi All, My mind is in total confusion. So please Can any one help regarding this.One girl is in love with me. Even me also just started loving her. Actually she was loving a another guy before in college days. They were friends from 8 months and finally it had turned into love and they loved each other for 5 month after that. One day she came to know he is flirting with her and she came out from slowly at that time . Now finally She proposed me when i asked her that you had any physical relationship before. She told that She had Smooched deep kiss him twice for 20 min, while smooching he had touched the breast and she had touched his penis from outside thats it had happen she had told openly. I am happy she had told openly but i got hurt somewhere i am feeling that i can love her or not ? Because when i kiss her or smooch her in future what may she feel or is good in health sense. Because i had not kissed a girl i need to give a first kiss to my girl is it ok i can accept this relation ?
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reader, bruce lee  +, writes (28 September 2010):
 You have to do what you think is right at the time...And it's a question of what you're willing to live with.
Sounds like you are really upset about this. But I can't influence you one way or the other. You will have to make up your own mind.
Good luck though.
All cultures are different. In Australia, people would laugh about this. But I understand that in India this is taken very seriously.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (28 September 2010):
 Yes you can accept this. You have not kissed a girl before? That at least in our culture is very odd. She on the other hand sound normal.
But that is just to me, to me kissing is very common and normal between couples, and is to be expected. I think you might be oer-reacting to this because you are new in the relationship and insecure. But you will grow in confidence, just ignore all those silly thoughts.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2010): I don't know what the societal norms are in your country (India?), but in most Western cultures, what she did will not negatively affect your love.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (28 September 2010):
 Yes you can accept this relation... if you can't then honestly you're just acting silly.
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reader, RennieGeek  +, writes (28 September 2010):
Many people have relationships before others. That is a fact. You area really being too hung up on this past relationship.
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