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female
age
36-40,
*oongirl
writes:So theres this guy who comes to the same gym i attend. Everytime hes there ,i catch him looking at me a lot and he makes sure i see him looking so i can return his gaze. I think i have a crush on him although i have never even spoken to him,im too shy to approach him and im not sure why he hasnt approached me either. So far i like the excitement and mystery of it all but when i go to bed at night i think of the way he looked at me and i dream of being in his arms. The way he looks at me in gym is as if im the only female there and when my gaze meets his,he will smile at me and ill smile back. When i know hes at gym,i get this anxious and butterfly feeling in me. The other day before he left he looked at me,smiled and waved. It made me so happy inside coz hes never waved to me before lol,i know i sound crazy! All i could do was smile at him coz i couldnt stop myself from blushing. I have seen him at the mall twice by coincidence and when i saw him he was with his mum and the other time with a friend and yes he saw me and looked at me and smiled. I dont know if he already has a gf or what becuase i dont know much abt him except for the fact that he comes to my gym and has his eyes on me......could somebody plz tell me if he likes me and why hasnt he approached me??
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (28 September 2010):
 He may just be being polite with the waves and smiles, however there is a chance he likes you also.
If you have seen him looking at you then the chances are he has seen you looking at him.
Guys can be shy when it comes to approaching girls, one of you needs to try and approach the other. Is there anywhere you could go for a drink after gym?
If there is you could maybe say hi as hes walking past then just casually say "Im going for a drink, would you like to join me" it really is that simple.
You can guage his reaction from that, if hes interested he will either go with you or if he already has plans he will probably arrange another time and date with you.
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