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writes:I feel so torn, I know I should walk away from this guy but I really like him. We have known each other for about 4 years and for the past 2 years we have been getting really close, and over the past 6 months things have turned sexual. I have just heard that he is with a girl on/off who very ill, I tried to confront him about it and at first he denied he was with someone and then he said he was on/off and he now says it's nowbodys business but I think if he wants sex from me then I should know, I suppose we are more FWB than anything serious but it does change how I feel and he doesn't think it matters and wants to meet up, I know I should walk away but I am really into him and don't want to lose what we have. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2010): Aunt honesty is dead on right there :-)...get away from this guy asap dont chase him...hes clearly not emotionally interested and you cannot change the way he acts, only influence. Ultimately, everything is his decision. You deserve a better guy and also make sure your intention with men is a relationship. Clearly communicate this or this could happen again. Best to you :)
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (28 September 2010):
 Hate to break it to you darling, but he doesnt care about your feelings he is getting sex so he doesnt care, you gave it to him without being in a relationship so now he aint going to respect you and he aint ever going to care about you, so you say you dont want to lose this but think what are you losing exactly? sex with a guy that doesnt want anything more from you and in return makes you feel bad. it will only get worse and worse if you dont get out of it now. its hard thing to do i know but believe me it will be worth it, because if you keep sleeping with him you will feel worse and worse and soon it will eat away all off your confidence and you will be left then feeling like you cant trust any other men. You dont have anything with this guy other than giving him what he wants. He is using you.
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