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writes:Basically, I lied about how old I was when I first met someone, because I was a year younger than what he said his 'limit' of age gap was, I hadn't expected it to go anywhere and now it is. I know I have to tell him, and have a pretty good idea of how I'll do it. but it's been over a year now, I really wish I didn't have to, but he's coming to see me this weekend, and I can't sleep with him when he thinks I'm older, it's not fair to him. I just want to know how you would react, If someone had lied about it to you? He has a big thing about trust.. He even clearly states in a written bio that he has trust issues and only gives people one chance with his trust.. I get the impression he really likes me but that could make it worse really when I tell him. Reply to this Question
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reader, fordyboy +, writes (29 September 2010):
 OK, how old did you tell him you were? and how old are you? plus how old is he? To face facts you did break his trust. you lied to him knowingly. However i'm sure that although wrong, at the time your intentions were good. What i would say is we are a year on, you've obviously grown more attached to each other and you have probably gained alot of trust and respect for each other. You must tell him and give him your reasons why you did what you did, be prepared to apologise and tell him that you respect you did wrong, you''ve learned your mistake and would very much like for him to give you the benefit of the doubt becuase its unfair on wither of you to lose such a good thing.
Good luck and keep us updated
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