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*ylan McK
writes: My girlfriend for the last year dumped me on Saturday, and we had a good relationship, and i really loved her. But she left me because she "didn't have any time for me" I was ok with this, until she got a new boyfriend today. How did she get over our relationship so quickly? Should i be over it too? Please help me! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2010): my boyfriend did the same to me he said he was bored,that does not say much for me
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (28 September 2010):
Thats the spirit go out with your friends and enjoy yourself
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reader, DenimandLace44 +, writes (28 September 2010):
I'm sorry to say that I bet the farm she was already well on her way to a relationship with him, before she ditched you. Whether it was a full on relationship, or just someone she was flirting around with, he was waiting in the wings you can be sure. I'm sorry hun, sometimes life isn't very fair. :(
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reader, Dylan McK +, writes (28 September 2010):
Dylan McK is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you, unfortunatley she had been seeing this other boy while we where together. I think that i'll get by with a little help from my friends. Thanks for the help dudes.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (28 September 2010):
Sorry to say this but she was likely over you well before she ended it. That happens sometimes. She's been trying to figure out a way to break it off for a while. She finally gave a lame excuse when she just didn't care anymore.
It's also possible she was cheating on you with this guy. It is pretty rare to hook up so quickly after a break up unless she had him waiting in the wings for your relationship to end.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (28 September 2010):
Oh sweetie i feel so sorry for you, maybe she just fell out of love with you, it happens in life and we just cant help it, you take your time and get over her there is no rush and before you know it you'll be out looking at other girls.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2010): Basically the "didn't have any time for me" is just a nice way to say she doesn't love you anymore.
I know you are heartbroken but at this moment there is not much you can do except from accepting it.
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