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writes:HeyMy partner and I have been together for almost three years now, but after our first year together he cheated. He broke it off wth me long after he did this but didnt actually tell me had done it untill a friend of his told me. We got back together after a month apart and things were fine, we now have a 8.5month baby together. But I cant get what he did to me out of my head, I think about it all the time and always find myself in tears thinking why did he do this to me? I dont know what to do, I want to move on and forget about this but i cant, I hate him for what he has done to me and may never be able to fully trust him or any other man ever again. What can i do to stop thiking about it and just get over it and move on with our lives? please help
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (28 September 2010):
 oh dear you really should'nt have got back together with this man and brought an innocent child in to all of this before sitting down and getting everything out in the open, but nobody can change that now. You need to tell your man how you are feeling and get a good explanation out of him why he done this, explain to him that you find it hard trusting him and that you are afraid that it will tear your family apart. He needs to earn your trust back and work hard to regain it. Let him know this but dont be clingy or pushy as this may only lead to him running. He may have just made a mistake that time but you need to know why, and the only person am afraid that can tell you the reason is him himself. Good Luck Darling.
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