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writes:All right I've got one that I am way lost on folks!So I went out to the bars with some friends and we eventually met up some gals at the bar. (we didnt know each other prior) One gal inparticular caught my eye and well we seemed to hit it off. A lot of good conversation about likes and what not, she asked me about my ex (which i didnt talk bad about, cuz i am a gentlemen but i clearly indicated that it was over even though it was nearly a decade long relationsship) She told me that I just hadnt found the one. As the night progressed we got a lil closer in when we talked and it got slightly hands (just a casual hand on the small of her back as i leaned in to say something to her over the music). It was a great time. As the night ended we exchanged names to meet up on facebook, and she told me she better not see that i have a gf...in a joking manner,i thought indicating, hey i am interest you better not have a gf or i will kick you in the balls. To my question, I added her on Facebook (and a friend of hers who gave me her name with the intention of looking each other up on facebook) But when I have added neither one added me back. I am really really confused, because the night appeared to go really well and we exchanged information. Anyone give me a better explanation on whats going on? I am more than confused!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2010): A lot of women arent worth chasing. In fact, I dont do it at all. I dont play games. Yeah, maybe forget about this one and move on. Also, trust your gut which it sounds like youre doing. Good luck man.
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reader, ReturningtheFavor +, writes (28 September 2010):
ReturningtheFavor is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDefinitely gonna let it ride...it was just weird cuz it was definitely a mutually good time. she chose to hang around with me i didnt push for or as her too...it would be nice if your right but im not gonna stress, lol...not looking for a relationship after the lengthy one i got out of...just thought she seemed great...if she doesnt add me then i will be confused as to why, they askd for my information and provided their names. could it have been a change of heart at last second? you think she had a bf maybe and "woke up" and said what the heck did i do, i gotta ignore this guy now. lol ive been there done that!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2010): Hey man!
I think youre perhaps reading a bit too much into that fb thing. If one added you, she may be interested. If the other hasn't yet, I wouldn't stress. You just met the woman and if she added you right away sometimes a woman could see that as being desperate so she'd be like "okay i like him, but will add him later". You dig? Ladies will not tell you this, you have to read it lol. Just chill...if she doesnt add you in say two weeks, call her up, or send her a brief email touching base.
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