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writes:Hello, now, first of all I am a 15 year old boy. I have been in a 6 month relationship with my girlfriend who is 13 years old. Now, everything has been great, since the start, my love for her has been constantly growing. Suddenly, a couple of days ago she suddenly told me that she wanted a break, out of nowhere. She said she needed time to think and her space, that she missed being with her friends all the time (relationships take time and obviously you get away from your friends). I told her that I supported her in any decision she takes, and that whatever that makes her happy will make me happy. Obviously, I just said it so she wouldn't cry harder, because I don't want this to happen. I am very scared and I don't want to loose her as I love her to death. Although after telling me this she said I still love you a lot, but something in my head is telling me I need to do this. I talk with her friends and they tell me that they have spoken with her and that she has told her she still loves me, but needs some time to think because she is missing important parts of his life. I don't know what to do, I have read some books and all of them say to give her space but I am really scared that after the break she just wants to be friends with me. I know I am still young and that I have all my life ahead but I would not bear to live without her, I love her way too much. What really bothers me is that she says she only thought of it the day before and told me straight forward. Her friends also told her that it had been a rushed decision. I would spend my life with her, I want no one else, she is my perfect girl and I am really scared to loose her. I hope you can help me, I dont know what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2010): OMG!!! You sound like the best boyfriend ever!!!! I totally understand what you must be feeling, so heres what i think you should do: Keep in touch, call her, txt her, email, whatever you can so you dont really loose her. Give her the space she needs but give her hugs regularly, be nice to her basically the stuff you did when you were together, just with not so much lovey dovey. Make sure she isnt pulling on your hear strings and actually "taking a break" to see someone else. you dont want to be heart broken. talk to her friends to see what she saying about you and whether or not she wants to get back together. Hope that stuff helps a least a little. Just remember, if she loves you she will come back, cuz i no if you were mine id never et you go :) best of luck
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (29 October 2010):
 She is frickin' 13 years old!!!! Give her a break and back off. If she were my daughter she wouldn't even be allowed to HAVE a boyfriend yet.
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