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writes:my b/f and i hav been dating for 6 months and its been hard because we both have sons with our exs. my problem is that i cant get over the fact he says he doesnt have feelings for his ex but i still think he still does.his ex g/f and him went on a trip overseas last yr when she was pregnant and basically she spent all his money and still is kind of manipulating him in a way he pays more child support then he should be. im glad he contributes but he doesnt need to that much because a child doesnt need that much stuff and she buys new things all the time prob with the child support money.i dont like to get into an argument over this with him though. but its like im always put last i feel like he still loves her. in the past he has told her he wanted to marry her and she used to drive him crazy and they used to argue a lot im just sick of feeling like i shouldnt have and opinion about it. and i cant shake the feeling he still loves her.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (29 October 2010):
 Well there is no obvious reason her thats telling me that he still loves her, are you sure you are not just feeling a little bit jelous because he is giving her alot more money than he needs to be? At the end of the day if he can afford to give his son all of this money then am afraid that is his business at least he never ran away and stopped paying for his child, however maybe you could suggest to him instead of giving his ex all of the money that maybe he could buy his son things so that he knows his money is going to his child and not his ex. Its always quite tricky when children are involved and it seems that you might just be feeling a little un involved as he has a bond with this women because of her son, am sorry but there is not a lot you can do about this you can either accept that her and her son will always be in your life or else if you are not happy you can make a clean break now and carry on with your life.
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