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female
age
26-29,
*loveyhoo
writes: This guy added me on facebook like a year ago now, we got talking, and nowdays we're always texting and on the phone. Ive wanted to meet him for so long! but something kept pulling me back. i finally went to see him yesterday. He took ages to come, he was late. I had 2 mates with me, he came with 2 mates. he came nd sat down with me and my mates, i was a bit drunk at the time. i admit i have liked him for so long now , but i havent told him but i think its obvious. anyway of course i didnt expect him to be perfect. apparently he kept asking me questions. im a really shy person when i first meet people, and i couldnt really look at him in the face most the time, so my friends were answering. we went outside for a bit he left us, then we met him in a shop. we was standing there for like 2 minutes, and i think we was talking but i still wasnt saying much. then a couple of others came over to him, and he was talking to them. he said to us you can go home now. so we walked off, then after i asked my mate if he really said that and she said yes. i asked him and he keeps ignoring my texts, but i managed to get out of him that some people who dont like the place im from were coming down, and i was annoying him cos i was drunk and queit. but what really got to me was that i met him for like 2minutes and then he said you can go home now. i didnt even get to know him. hes so different over the phone nd txt compared to face to face. but the thing is i still really like him. what shall i do, shall i jsut leave him or try and make things right again and start afresh? im so confused with what to do...
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reader, iloveyhoo +, writes (13 December 2010):
iloveyhoo is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe knows im not that shy as a person though, and he was beginning to see that the other day. But the thing is though when im tetxing him and on the phone to him it just feels right.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2010): the reason being his behavior over the phone and in person is most likely he was expecting something else your shyness could have contributed to his behavior in person. i'm not sure but maybe he only wanted sex but i'm not sure just try and talk to him find out the reasons why he acts the way he does and if you think it feels wrong with him then just move on
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