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writes:the love of my life has come back after a few years,not sure what to do because during this time i got back with a previous ex i was with before the love of my life.i dont want to go behind anyones back,but why do these things happened?someone told me because sometimes the timing is wrong.somewhere in heart it seems right to go with the love of my life. Reply to this Question
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reader, soon567  +, writes (31 October 2010):
The grass is not always greener. He's the love of your life, but he doesn't see it as you do. Why would two people that love each other drift apart. This could be a good friend and shouldn't go any further than that. We'll its your choice, but don't end up alone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2010): If you love someone, free him; If he comes back to you, that's how you know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2010): This situation kind of reminds me of a book that I just read, called "love the one you're with" by Emily Giffin. I suggest reading it.
Since you are not married to this man, then you have a choice. Are you committed to this man? I understand when you say that it would feel right to be with the love of your life. So the only question is, whos the love of your life? You wouldnt be going behind anyones back. You would only be doing that if you were cheating on the man you're with now. Do whats right for you. I wish you the best of luck. :]
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (29 October 2010):
 Well this is clearly your choice and you need to think about it long and hard before you make a choice, if he was the love of your life then why did he leave you? You need to ask yourself if you are prepared to give up what you have now for something that might not work out, people change with time and this man might not be the same man he was years ago.
Whatever you decide to do just make sure it is the right thing for you. If you chose to go with the man that has jsut came back in to your life then dont go behind your partners back to do this, break up with him first and be honest with him. Dont lie to him yes it will hurt him at the time but it is better than him finding out that you were unfaithful.
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