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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (30 October 2010):
It may not be a case of love. I suspect that he's too immature and young to really understand what he's up to. He shouldn't feel the need not to talk to you in school. If he's feeling that, then he's most likely embarrassed in front of his friends or something. But he shouldn't be treating you this way. Talk to him about it when he does speak and see what he has to say for himself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2010): Dear Ylviona, if your young man is sensible and responsible he will be there for you later, if it is meant to be, he will wait for you, until you are older. I hope that it works out as you wish and you are happy. But it may not. This is because to most young boys there is only the fun, for them, of appealing to as many girls as possible, while the boy is still young too. And, eventually, the boy trying hard to find a girl silly enough to allow some illicit sexual experimenting with a boy, even though it is illegal to do so with a 13 year old girl. Please dont become that girl. Please enjoy your childhood. There will be many years ahead to be an adult. And enjoy a committed relationship with one special person. Your responsibility now is to developing yourself by doing well at your school work and respectful to your teachers and family. You lack the capacity to sustain a love relationship with a boy at the age of 13 years. Love at this age is unsustainable, and bound to end in tears. So many girls ruin their lives with poor grades and too much emphasis on boys.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2010): I do hope this boy is being sensible and giving his studies, not you, his first priority. Young men and boys, those under 18 years, are not ready for a real relationship, no matter how many compliments they shower you with. Boys often experiment with girls who are naive and easy to convince to experiment. But then the boys forget one girl and go on to the next girl. Each new girl is a new challenge. This happens many times and breaks the young hearts of the easy girls. You are still very young. You can like a boy a lot, but first and foremost your focus must be on your school work. These years at school are when you study. Legally you are still a child, yes i know you think you are almost grown up, and your future will be determined by how hard you study and get good grades now. Do not be in such a hurry to be an adult.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2010): well,there are possible reasons why he isn't talking to you.I'm saying this cuz i don't wanna unfairly assume anything.when you mean he doesn't talk to you,u mean he NEVER talks to you,like,passes you by like youre not even their or is just being a tiny bit distant? I'd try talking to him,maybe he's upset about something or is being a real jerk.ya never know.Try talking to him about why he never talks to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2010): It depends on how long you have been dating. If you haven't been going out long, than he might be a little shy about his feelings for you. If you have been dating for over a month, than you need to move on because he is probably too cool to be tied down or whatever. Just cut loose dead weight!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2010): Why would you want to be with someone who don't talk to you in public. Get someone else...someone who will talk to you.
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reader, EtTuBrute +, writes (30 October 2010):
 That's not very much to go on but I'm going to say probably not.
If someone likes you, they'll make an effort to be around you. Teenage boys are often embarrassed about their feelings though. If he talks to you outside of school and in private, that means he doesn't want his friends to know. Guys at that age typically try to act tough in front of their friends at that age. I know because I've seen it.
If he's just ignoring you in school, then talk to him about it. Tell him it hurts your feelings when he ignores you. If he continues doing it, break up with him.
If he's ignoring you all together though, it's time to be single again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2010): One thing that I have noticed about people our age dating, is that they dont talk in school. If hes your boyfriend, you shouldnt have to wonder why hes not talking to you. Just ask him! Better yet, start up a conversation with him! I think its ridiculous when this stuff happens, just talk to each other! I hear stuff like this ALL the time at school, where the girls are obsessing over it and most of the time the guy is just nervous. If you're dating, then you should be able to talk to each other.
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reader, [?]BitterSweetFinale;[?] +, writes (30 October 2010):
![[?]BitterSweetFinale;[?] agony aunt](/avatars/7bb1e9ea-6c2f-43b8-a4f7-0635b7eff08c.png) How could you even call him a boyfriend if he doesn't talk to you? He isn't worth it, and I don't think he loves you if he did that's a crappy way of showing it. You need to realize what a good relationship is, and what a bad relationship is.. and find somebody who will actually talk to you, and give you the attention you need. Hope that helped dear, xoxo.
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