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writes:Hello, i know this may not seem the most important question but it would do a lot of help if i could have a answer of some one :) So basically, its about me and this girl, ( i will call her K) ive known her for about 2 years and have been friends for about the same time. A year in, she said she liked me, but at the time i didnt have the same feelings for her, however we remained friends, but i went on to have 2 more girl friends after this. After those short relationships, i started to really like K, we saw each other as best friends, this developed over like a 7month period, then she finally said she also liked me, so we got together. I thought this would be such a good relationship, as we could tell each other anything and talked for so long everyday, i really got attached and i was convinced i loved her. So we finally got together, however the relationship lasted for 1 week only, and she ended it. She said it was awkward between us 2, even though we only met each other once as girlfriend and boyfriend. It tore me up a lot, i never normally cry, but i couldnt stop crying over her, she meant so much to me and i loved everything about her. Since this though, i have always loved her and liked her still, i even told her this. But now it seems she doesent want nothing to do with me, we hardly talk anymore, which is bad as we used to talk so much to each other. I got told i treated her so well by my friends, and i cant see a reason why she would want to stop contact with me. It just hurts as we use to be so close and now were nothing like we use to be.I havent got with anyone else after this, and i dont know what to do now, i still love her, but should i walk away and move on ? or do i stay there in case something else happens ?I will really really appreciate any answer i get to this, will mean a lot, thank youConrad x
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (29 October 2010):
 Hi this is awful it must be so confusing for you i'm confused as it sounds like she liked you a lot maybe she jsut felt weird being in a relationship with you and awkward and she is probably distancing herself from you now so that she can try and get over you. that is my only conclusion.
No dont wait around for this girl as it will only prolong the pain and make you feel worse. Instead contact her write her a letter or text and tell her how you feel tell her you dont understand what happened or what went wrong and ask her could she explain to you tell her you miss her friendship the most and if she doesnt want to be in a relationship with you at the moment then you will understand but you dont no why she is pulling away from the friendship. Goodluck.
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