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writes: when i was on a school trip i completely and utterly fell for a boy. Halfway through the week we got together and we moved fast (boys and girls weren't allowed in the same room for a reason - we didn't have sx but a few more days and we would have probably) when we got home we only saw each other oa few times before we got back to school. then when we saw each other at school it was just hi's in the corridor. i was planning on dumping him because of this but i never saw him. then a few weeks later he dumped me by changing his status online. i was really hurt that he didn't respect me enough to say it where i could reply. worst of all apparently people thought he had previously broken up with me. i still like him a lot and i want more closure. however i don't know how to get it without looking desperate to get back with him. i did send him an e-mail with a sarcastic comment about how he dumped me but he never replied. please help ?? should i just let it go or not? Reply to this Question
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (29 October 2010):
 What more closure do you want ?
Ok the guy has not been a perfect gentleman, he should have told you in your face " I am dumping you because of this and that " and he did not. But, since, like you said, after coming back from the trip your relationship was quicly down to " hi " in the school corridors , he must have assumed you had noticed that , you had got the hint and understood it was ALREADY over.
Let it go, right now. Don't waste any more thought on this, you would not accomplish anything and would just look desperate.
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reader, Odds  +, writes (29 October 2010):
 No one is entitled to closure. It's a nice thing to do, but once you break up unilaterally, the whole thing is over.
You'll be happier if you don't worry about closure, and just move on. Don't give some guy who dumped you any more power over you and your feelings than he already has.
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