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I either love him or I'm used to being treated badly

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Question - (29 October 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 30 October 2010)
A female Australia age 51-59, *m lost writes:

Iam currently in a relationship wherein things made a sudden changes, All the while that he is unemployed at his attitude and behavior I was there for him to support finacially, emotionally with all the complications in his life, suddenly came a rainbow of having a good paying job then sudden things is he doesnt want me in his life anymore he thinks the relationship sucks, he says he is happy to hurt me physically, I know what should i do Maybe some of you may think Im insane or lunatic like he calls me now but Im so scared where to start Ive put my life on him for alost 2 years, promises and dreams that when he gets the job everything will be alright. Yes for him but me i still struggle to make it thru he still ask me to share all bills even though im left with nothing. i know I dont deserve this but how and always is why in me? All I know I love him or Im used to it How and what to do...Please help. As of the moment Im going to see a psychologist...I think Im nut already.....

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (30 October 2010):

aunt honesty agony auntYou poor girl this man used you for your money when he didnt have his own and now he is disrespecting you and leaving you with nothing he has no heart and he certaintly doesnt love you am afraid if he is going to treat you like this. He is very selfish and you need to get rid of him he is no good. Try and find yourself a smaller place were the bills arent so high and start a new life for yourself you will hopefully one day meet a man that will treat you with respect. Dont let this man walk all over you.

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