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writes:My son is playing his first year of football and I have the biggest crush on his coach. In the beginning of the season I didn't pay too much attention to him, as a matter of fact I called him an asshole. I saw him look at me a few times but I figured he was just lookin my way. One night I went out with a couple of girlfriends and he was at the same place we were. We saw each other at the bar and he called me over to make small talk. Throughout the night I kept seeing his face but we didn't talk again. I didn't really think much of it until I started noticing him looking at me at practice. We started making eye contact. One night after practice we really made eye contact for a long time. I broke it by smiling and waving, then he smiled and waved back. One weekend we were having an out of town game and some parents and the coach were going to go up the night before and spend the night. The day before the game the coach had made a comment to me about having some drinks that night and said he might have to strip tonight and asked if I wanted to see him strip(this was in front of his friend). I was in shock and didn't know how to respond. (I would love to see him strip) I ended up not going up the night before. The next morning at the game I was walking right past him and he wouldn't even look at me. He didn't even say hi. At the next practice, I confronted the coach and told him that the comment he made, made me feel uncomfortable. He said he was just playing but he understood and said that it would never happen again. Since then we have made eye contact but its not the same as before. We talk sometimes and he has made attempts to talk to me about small personal things. The last two practices he hasn't even spoken to me. He asked one parent that was standing near me a question and I looked over. He looked at the parent, looked at me (no smile) then looked away and went back to what he was doing. We always seem to make eye contact when we see each other unless I'm being shy and won't look. I've been having dreams about him, good and bad. I think about him all of the time. I'm to the point where I want to call him and tell him how I feel but I don't want to be rejected or find out that he doesn't feel the same for me. I think he has a girlfriend. This is the shocker......... I'm married!!!! We got married young have been through a lot together. I've never been attracted this way to any other man since I've been with my husband. I can't figure out what is wrong with me. I'm curious to know if he just wants to have sex with me or if he is really interested in me.
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reader, Ilikeitlikethat +, writes (15 October 2019):
Ok so the reason why I've been sent to this page is due to I've been liking my son coach as well. I'm not married, I'm single and loving it for now. My son just started like for a month now so he's a rookie. I came to practice one day and saw him from a distance though. His body was on a thousand. ( for those of you that doesn't know's what that mean it's basically saying a person has it going on) immediately I was attracted, then when I saw him up close I said yeah he's litt. ( meaning he's all that and more). I haven't said anything to him, and I'm not imma just let it be. Just show more affection as in when he shakes my hand I'll rub his or I'll start by tapping his shoulders or just doing a little extra stuff and if he doesn't get the hint then I'll stop and just move on but he's good to look at got dam he look good.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2010): I just want to share something with the unofficial team mom: I work in the financial services industry and was told a very disturbing 'story'- highly successful businessman decides to increase his life cover, had to do a HIv test, came back positive. Surprised since he is married 'faithfully' for many years. Investigates and finds out that the local gardener was doing the wife and a few other women in the same street. I am assuming they are all now hiv positive. Moral of the story to soccer moms and other sporting moms: the coach/instructor usually hooks up with a 'desperate' married woman, in fact there is a likelihood that he would be doing many moms at the same time. So PLEASE to all you bored moms panting around the coaches/instructors, not only are u going to lose your marriages but your health is at risk too. So be cautious when dealing with these coaches, they prey on you women and you women fall hook,line'sinker for these pathetic men while your husbands are busting their balls earning extra bucks to pay for the sporting codes. Go figure!!! Harsh but true
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk....... so I've come to realize that my infatuation (how embarrasing) with "The Coach" is due to the fact that my marriage is not going so well right now. The attention from the coach really sparked something inside of me that I haven't felt in a long time. It is a good thing because it makes me feel good about myself. I think I'm getting over it now. I've been trying to not pay much attention to him. It seems to be working for me. Last night my son told me, "Coach said you're the unofficial team mom because you do all of the things that a team mom does." I thought...... hmm, do I???? I asked, "Why did he say that? My son said he didn't know. I'll just continue to do what works...... staying away. Thanks for your responses........ They have made me think twice about my feelings and acting or not acting on them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): It's normal to have a crush/fantasy even when you're married. Just do the right thing and don't cross the line. Seems like the coach is a sulking "player" and is on to his next conquest. You did the right thing. It's always nice to get attention but the coach seems like he is a narcicistic prick!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you Bob. I think I needed to hear that from someone else. I was thinking the exact same thing. I am lusting over another man. Not good!!!!
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reader, Bob Freemer +, writes (30 October 2010):
He just wants sex with you. Guaranteed, speaking from a guy's perspective. But it sounds like that might be what you want too although perhaps you haven't admitted it to yourself? You're playing with fire here, woman. He probably realized his error in letting himself think with his c$#k and that's why he's so embarassed!
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