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I love my boyfriend but I cant help enjoying the attention my ex gives me, what should I do?

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Question - (2 January 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 January 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am 15 and a chap i used to see and have had sex with is 24. i still see the lad regularly even tho we are not having sex anymore. he is very much like part of my family and everyone gets on with him.

but i have a boyfriend now who i really love lots and he means a lot to me but this lad still keeps trying to get me to have sex with him and wen we go out on a friday and saturday night he will either send me messages while he is sitting opposite me, keep winking at me, slyly hold my hands or slyly feel parts of my body like my boobs and my bum. even tho i do not want to do anything with him anymore because i have my boyfriend i do liek the attention he shows me sometimes because he was the first person i had sex with and i still have feelings for him

what should i do? should i keep letting him do it but go no further or stop it?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2010):

Thanks for your advice CaringGuy but i rli believe he does have feelings for me and he is not a danger to young women!

and i no i was too young but it was my discission he did not force me into anything x

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (2 January 2010):

You have to stop it. He's breaking the law by having sex with you because you're under 16. That means he's actually a sex offender. I would stay well away from him, because he's a danger to young women.

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