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anonymous
writes:How can I love someone when he doesn't love me back? How I know is when I have to beg my husband to hold my hand in public that's not love And we fight a lot. He has children with his ex wife and we have a 21month old little girl and a 9 week old little boy and he puts them on the back burner so what should I do?
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reader, love_and_hate +, writes (2 January 2010):
In most marriages or close relationships that initial "spark" dies over time and very rarely people are able to maintain that fire.Perhaps he love syou, but he is not "in love" with you.
I see a difference between these 2 terms. Yes you need to talk to him, maybe you guys can spice up your life.
Good Luck!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 January 2010):
You need to talk to him clearly about how you feel. And I do mean clearly. Tell him exactly how you feel. He will listen to you if he cares, and will try to change. If he doesn't' care, he won't listen and will brush you aside. And if that happens, then you need to consider whether you want to be second best to this guy, when you can be the best to someone else. Have an honest, clear talk with him.
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