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female
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anonymous
writes: hi, this may seem stupid but its making me feel down, me and my fiance have been together a yr and half. im 9 months pregnant. we was ordering a take away online and instead of putting our post code he put his exs. it seems really dodgy to me, why would he put her post code? im thinking hes either not over her or he's still seeing her, what do you think? hes always secretive, he was charging his old mobile and i asked why n he said he found it and was wondering if it worked, since then i havent seen it. he doesnt open letters while im in the room n he hides his ipod touch. am i just paranoid?
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reader, love_and_hate +, writes (2 January 2010):
You might be right, but at the same time maybe he just got confused, you know one of days.
How long did he live with the ex? If he lived with her much longer than with you, maybe it was he was used with those numbers more than your zip code.
However it's worth to keep a close eye on his behavior, cell phone etc. If you can get his cell, then I would try to look at text messages.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (2 January 2010):
Hm, yes, why would he put her postcode in. That is a little suspicious more that anything else to be honest. I think you need to talk to him about all this. Tell him you're worried that he's not into you anymore, and that he's been acting very secretive. And if you get a chance, have a look through that phone when he's not around.
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