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anonymous
writes: I have been in a good relationship with a strong black man for 5 years. He has always been interested in porn, and his brother explained that it was common when growing up because their Dad had tons of porn in the house. I started a high demand job in 2007, and I was too tired for sex, so since then it has become a 4 times a month thing. I recently saw a cragslist personals search for men seeking women, women seeking women, and men seeking men. I also saw 2 gay porn sights in the history, along with all other regular porn sites. I am thinking that he has a curiosity, or gay porn turns him on, but nothing about him says gay. He is very alpha male, not too clean cut, he burps farts and lets his facial hair get really scruffy sometimes. He hates to shop, watches some sports, he hates to talk, and just seems normal. I don't think he's gay, but why would he look at gay porn? please HELP!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2010): He might be just curious .. not to worry too much., but ask him anyway to put your mind at rest.
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reader, jc2008 +, writes (2 January 2010):
You could always ask him if he is curious about guys or point out you have seen these tracks on the computer then see how he reacts. If anything its probably curiosity.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010): He may be trying to make up for the lost sex he's had, by simply watching porn. The fact that it's gay porn maybe because he's trying to make himself feel better. I dont think he could be gay, men just like to watch porn whatever it is!
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reader, curious26 +, writes (2 January 2010):
Only 4 times a month? He obviously isn't getting what he needs from you so he's looking elsewhere.... i would be more worried about his fidelity than if he's gay or not. I think men just like porn period.
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