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I still love him and think he will come crawling back again, but he blew his last chance with me after he slept with my friend! How do I get over him?

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Question - (2 January 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 2 January 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

For about a year now i have been sort of seeing this boy on and off, he is a year older than me (im 14) and i always knew he had done stuff with other girls. loads of people warned me he was a player and was no good for me but i paied no attention. things were going great between us for a while but then he started ignoring me and i found out he liked another girl. eventually he came crawling back to me when he messed things us with the other girl. this happened a few times and i had had enough so around 2 months ago i said it was his last ever chance and if he messes it up again i wont be there waiting for him. he promised he'd changed but then i find out on a night that i should have been meeting him but couldnt he had slept with one of my mates. She was sorry but he wasnt. technicaly we wernt even seeing each other but he had told me he really liked me and i felt as if he cheated on me. I was so mad to begin with but now we are talking again and we have started to talk about him and her. he was telling me how much he liked her and wants to be with her. its weird for me to talk about another girl to him like that. i love him and its so so so hard for me. i just cant get over him and i tell myself he will come crawling back soon, but then i gave him his last chance and he blew it so i shouldnt forgive him again. i want to get over him but i just cant.

ps i refused to do stuff with him becos i didnt feel ready and i feel maybe thats why he went off with the other girl.

HELP x

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (2 January 2010):

All you need to do is remember that he slept with your friend illegally (assuming she is also under 16). Do you want to go out with a sex offender?

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