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What will I do if she becomes pregnant?

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Question - (2 January 2010) 9 Answers - (Newest, 3 January 2010)
A male Kenya age 36-40, *urryd writes:

hi. my girlfriend and i had unprotected sex then she took a morning after pill. we had sex two more times and she took another dose. am afraid of her becoming pregnant. we are both in college. we are waiting. what will i do if she becomes pregnant? we've dated for two yrs. how effective are e pills? i still love the girl.

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A male reader, murryd Kenya +, writes (3 January 2010):

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thanks guy. luckily she had her periods today. phew! i've sworn never to have sex again without proper control. i dont like condom coz i feel nothing when i put it on. but i love her and i will work harder to be able to support my child when the right time comes. that was a close shave.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (3 January 2010):

Danielepew agony auntWell, if the woman you love becomes pregnant you will become a very loving daddy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2010):

if you are that worried about pregnancy then use condoms ask her to go on the pill or look into other means of contraception dont go messing around with worrying that can be prevented EASILY

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010):

I do admire you for being worried about your girl friend make sure she knows your there for her. And if she is there are lots of options such as abortion and adoption. I hope everything works out for the best

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A female reader, PeanutButter United States +, writes (2 January 2010):

PeanutButter agony auntChances are that she won't be pregnant, this time, but there is ALWAYS a chance that the morning after pill won't work.

If she is taking it multiple times this could be dangerous to her health.

Stop playing russian roulette with a new life, here. Buy condoms, wear them.

If you don't want to end up with children, you better start thinking with your brain, instead of your *cough* head!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010):

Hi. I suggest if you feel worried then use a condom and the pill untill your entirely sure. This gives less chance of her getting pregnant

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A female reader, meg2989 United States +, writes (2 January 2010):

meg2989 agony auntFirst of all, and I'm going to get a little mad at you here, the "Plan B" pill, what you are reffering to as the "morning after pill" IS NOT BIRTH CONTROL!!!!!!!!!!! I can't stress that enough. If you are planing to have unprotected sex, she needs to get on birth control. You need to be smart about things like this. For godsake your in college, haven't they taught you about this?! Okay there, sory for chewing you out, but I mean really. Okay as far as how effective the "plan B" pill is. You can figure that it is about 75% effective. The longer you wait the more ineffective it gets. ( so if you have sex take it and take it after its about 85-90 percent effective, then the more days that pass the more ineffective the pill becomes) Anyways you need to start playing it safe, have her get on birth control, and you really should always use condoms to prevent STD's. Best wishes and good luck. I hope you get the results you want.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010):

what will i do if she becomes pregnant? a girl doesnt just become pregnant, you made her pregnant. three times? you should of learnt after the first mistake! theres some people who are in love, and try for children for many many years and cannot have them. then there are stupid immature teenagers popping them out left right and centre! grow up child. condoms cost nothing

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (2 January 2010):

Morning after pills are effective, but not all the time. Especially if you're having sex, then using the pill and then having unprotected sex again. Use condoms. And if she is pregnant, you will have a duty to the baby that comes along.

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