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writes:my cousin is three years older then me and ever since we were little we've been great friends, but recentally ive been feeling a sort of...sexual tension between us and im actually jealous cause he has a girlfriend. i really like my cousin and feel totally weirded out by it...helpp!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2010): It is not OK to have these feelings towards your cousin. You are very young and your hormones are simply raging. Your attraction for your cousin is part of this and he is someone that you feel safe with because he is a family member.Do not listen to the advice of the girl who f**ked her cousin. Reason being is this is your blood relative, you will have a lifelong relationship with him as your cousin.Having sex with him or any sort of relationship outside of a familial one at your age will never work out and you will destroy any future relationship you could of had with him. Your family will be shocked and disgusted with your behavior.In the US it is illegal to have sex at your age in all states, and in most states marriage between first cousins is illegal. It is mostly due to the increased incidence of birth defects as you are genetically too closely related, what happens is any diseases or congenital conditions that may be recessive in your genes (something that is not present in your genes now) will become dominant in a child born to you. This is unethical and is considered immoral here in the US.Simply realize that your feelings are one of sexual urgency, nothing more and direct your attention elsewhere. If you can't trust yourself around your cousin for awhile, then stay away from him.
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reader, AyyxCUUHxshebomb +, writes (3 January 2010):
 it's fine!! don't be weirded out girl.! i have the same feelings for my cousin, and we had sex twice and both times were AMAZINGG. but don't strees and don't tell him how you feel, trust me baby i know. its just i'm jealous too because my cuzin has a gf and we fucked twice while he was with his girlfriend in June and we fucked again while he has his previous girlfriend. so don't worry. you'll get through it. trust me:)
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