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I'm tired getting hurt by him and don't know what to do for the best...

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Question - (2 January 2010) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have liked this lad for months now and we've always been really close friends but he confuses me so much, one minute he speaks loads and the next he doesnt talk to me. so i got fed up with this and then i found out he has a girlfriend and i got really upset and hurt so i thought it would be best to try and block him out. I thought it would be best if i didnt speak because i get too upset by his moodswings, him being confusing and especially now he has a girlfriend. so i deleted his number and msn and everything. then after a few weeks of not speaking he text me asking how i'd been so i did not reply and then he asked my friend what was up with me coz he noticed i had been ignoring him. so i text him explaining that i think its best we dont talk coz ive liked you for ages and i need to get over stuff but i feel like i couldnt if we spoke. so he text back saying its up to you but we have always been good friends so i dont see why we should just stop talking but its up to you what you think is for the best. i'll talk to you whenever. so i didnt text him back but im so confusd what to do :/ because i dont think he would hurt me on purpose and i think he is a good person, he just has no idea but im fed up of getting hurt by him but i dont know what to do :( help?!

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