A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:This girl and I started dating at the end of my senior year in high school and we dated all through the summer. I went to college and it hasn't been fun being this far apart. I try to visit as much as possible but sometimes there is 3 or 4 weeks in between. She now says that it is too hard for her and she doesn't want to be with me anymore and that she still loves me. She was bawling when she told me this and even more when I tried to talk her out of it. How can I talk to her and what can I say to make her realize that it is worse to not be together than to have a long distance relationship? Especially when she is already crying.
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (2 January 2010):
 She is not mature enough for the long distance relationship. It is time for you to buck up and be the man. You have to make her needs come first. You need to let her free for a time. If it is meant to be she will come back when she is ready. In the mean time she needs the freedom to make her own mistakes. This was a hard choice for her she would not have gone through with it if she wasn't sure.
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