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Not sure what to make of her signals please help me interpret them

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Question - (2 January 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 2 January 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

She is sending me mixed signals and I do not know what to make of them!!!!!!!?

I met this girl a month or two ago and it seemed like we immediately hit it off. Lately we have hung out a few times with friends and **** and that is always cool, but when its is just her and I she either cant keep herself away from me( playfully poking, hitting, grabbing, tickling, etc.) and from talking with me, or she barely acknowledges me and leaves me with one word answers. I know she was into me at one point because she had started to jokingly refer to me as her lover or would do cute little things with her food or gum and ask if it was turning me on and if I wanted more. I also know that her friend has told her she (her friend that is) has a crush on me. Would that have anything to do with it or is she just not sure what she wants? PLEASE HELP I am really into her and would like to know if it seems like I am wasting my time!

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (2 January 2010):

Well it sounds like she likes you a lot. Of course, there's no real way to find out unless you ask her. So that's what you have to do. Ask her. Either she will be interested or she won't. And if she's not, you'll know there's someone else out there for you. But unless you ask her, you'll never know.

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A female reader, SeXylOvE12 United States +, writes (2 January 2010):

SeXylOvE12 agony auntYou need to talk to her. There is no way to know what she wants or why she's sending mixed signals unless you ask. When she's giving you one word answers it could mean anything from "I really want you to try harder to get me to talk to you because i want to see how much you care," to "you're really annoying me and i want you to leave me alone." There is no way to know for sure. TALK TO HER!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010):

a girl here the whole thing about her friend could be the reason,she doesnt no if it will hurt her friend. and the part abot wen ur alone is that she wants to mess around and she likes you but doesnt want people to no quite yet or somethin like that. hope this helps a littel.lol

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A male reader, xnickx United States +, writes (2 January 2010):

xnickx agony auntshes probably getting frustrated if shes not getting the same response back from you.. I could go on and on but to answer your question simply:

Yes.

It seems like she likes you. If you like her back, take a chance. the worst she can say is no. best of luck

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