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female
age
30-35,
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writes: I'm aware that when a female is sexually aroused she becomes wet and also the labia become swollen. But I am worried that when I'm aroused mine get too swollen, not enough to cause problems but enough for me to be embarrassed or self conscious. This started a few months ago when, in the middle of sex with my ex, he looked down and saw me and said 'woah'. I dont know if this is due to his inexperience (as he was), or because I get bigger than is usual.Should I be worried or not about this, or will guys in the future be put off or laugh at me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010): Sounds hot to me. Don't worry about it :)
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010): Nothing to worry about . It's great that you are enjoying the intimacy you have . It would not be off putting . Just stay relaxed . It will boost the guys self - esteem that it is a passionate relationship .
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female
reader, Brooklyngirl +, writes (2 January 2010):
I wouldn't worry about it! It will more likely it will work to your advantage! No one will laugh at you!
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male
reader, CaringGuy +, writes (2 January 2010):
More likely they will enjoy it because they'll think they're doing a good job. Don't worry about it at all. Everyone is different, and a good guy will always like you and enjoy you for who you are.
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