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writes:I have been in an relationship for 1 1/2 years we now have a 2 month old baby and he lives with me and my 12 year old son. We argue about everything.... no matter what is! We are good together financially seems everything else is a problem. He blames all the agruments on me as a reason why they started. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Brooklyngirl +, writes (2 January 2010):
 I know what that's like, and it sucks! I was with a man for 16 years, who blamed me for everything! He also expected me to solve all his problems (which were too many to count!)
It's a terrible way to live and I am glad I'm not with him any longer! Your situation is different, you have a child together.
Counselling would probably help if he is willing to participate.
I am in a relationship now, that is harmonious and peaceful! What a difference! The only thing we argue about is The Yankees...I love them, he hates them!
I wish you luck!
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reader, pril +, writes (2 January 2010):
I no the feeling. My husband is the same why. He is perfect and I do every thing wrong. Try setting him down and talk about it. It may work. We have been together for 8 yrs. I have had to have this talk with him a lot lately but it seems to be working. We have a 10 month old and I'm not getting much sleep or help. So we argue a lot I no some of the fights r my fault but not all of them. U just need to make him understand u aren't going to take the blame for all of them he needs to be a man and relize he isn't perfect.
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