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My cousin is all I've ever wanted...

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Question - (2 January 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 January 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, *riffingirl writes:

im in love with my cousin!! i have a boyfriend but my cousin is all ive ever wanted...i didnt like him til new years when he picked me up and squeezed me and kissed my neck and cheeks deeply and i did the same to him, no one noticed anything cause it didnt look bad but i felt a connection, i think he did too. hes married and that kills me...to the point of i want to cry everytime i see them together. im front of people we dont do this but when its the 2 of us hell kiss my cheeks and neck and hold me really close. hes all i want.

what should i do???

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A female reader, griffingirl United States +, writes (3 January 2010):

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he wasnt drunk at the time...but he was after. but he was very passionate about the kiss and he picked me up and squeezed my waist and we took turns kissing each other.

i doubt this will ever cause a divorce...but he is my moms cousins kid..well not kid hes 26.

im not lookin to marry him...just kiss him

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A female reader, JaneMarie United States +, writes (3 January 2010):

Was he drunk? He may have only kisses you out of friendliness and joy. You are the only one who knows how passionate those kisses were. However, besides him being your cousin, it also sounds like he is older. Are you truly in love with him or are you in love with the idea of being in love with him?

Why is your cousin so much better than your boyfriend?

Other things to consider, he is married; you could cause major friction if not a horrible divorce for your cousin that could cause him a lot of pan and hardship. Also, is he a first cousin? At least regarding marriage, in many states you cannot marry a first cousin and as a role, generally American society frowns upon romantic relationships between close cousins. Also, in some states, it is illegal for an adult to date a minor, particularly when there is more than three years age difference between the minor and the adult, so you could get him in legal trouble.

This was recent, do your best to suppress these feelings, however only you know what is really best, hopefully I gave you some facts to consider.

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