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41-50,
anonymous
writes: Hi . I am misssing the elusive : " I love you " that I have been waiting for . I have seen a lovely , caring older guy . Fifteen years older than me . He is kind , caring and passionate . He has told me ....that I am special , and big in his life and how much he cares for me . We have been seeing each other six months and have both been married before . Should I just hope that he eventually feels love ...? Help would be appreciated ...
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (2 January 2010):
If he shows you he loves you, then he loves you. Don't underestimate the problems men have have saying those words, especially with men who have been hurt before. When he is ready, he will say the words. But if he is showing you he loves you, then he loves you. Remember it is better to have someone who shows you they love you and doesn't say it, rather than a man who says he loves you and doesn't show it.
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reader, shania +, writes (2 January 2010):
I would of thought after 6 months he would know if he is in love with you or not? Saying that,if he shows you love through his actions, then thats mostly important, although it is nice to hear those 3 little words.Have you actually said to him that you love him?
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