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writes:hi, my name's bea and im in a mess! I liked my boyfriend for a very long time before we went out, and about a year ago, i told him how much i liked him; he liked me too. he wanted to take things further than friends, and although i really did like him, it just didnt seem like the best thing to do at the time, but he didnt understand this and consequently, got extremely hurt. around 6 months later, i was still liking him, and although i knew it was really selfish, i just had to tell him how i felt again. This time, he handled it very differently, he told me that he still liked me, but he also liked another girl quite a bit too. he told me, that he wasn't going to give up on this other girl now, and this did seem sensible after what id done to him before. However, a few weeks passed and i still couldn't stop thinking about him and i just had to let him know that i was still in the picture and that i was actually head over heels. It took a while, but eventually, he admitted he liked me too, decided it wouldnt work with that other girl, and, well yeah, obviously now, hes my boyfriend of just a month. The thing is though, im having doubts. Like, really big doubts, and i dont know why. We've not yet "done anything", and he always talks about it and tries to plan it out, but i'd rather just see where the moment takes us, and because he is younger than me, he just seems really immature; none of this i've noticed before. Also, i dont tend to see him much either, and when im not with him, i almost resent him for not being with me, and i sit there for hours on end trying to decide if "going out with him" is for the best! I dont know what to do, should i dump him, or should i leave it for a while? something just feels wrong, and i dump him now, ill never get him back! please help! bea. x
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reader, xAx +, writes (3 January 2010):
 The fact that he talks about sex a lot bothers me. I think that he may be only after sex. If you can find out what happened with this girl and him would really help! If she left him, then it would definately mean that he is after sex, but if he left her for you, then he really likes you!
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