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writes:ive decided that as it is a new year i should decided what to do about my ex, i really miss and want him back even though i dont want to feel this way. hes my first love so its crazy to say i thought we were going to last forever but i did. i am really bad at showing my true feelings and being vulnerable so i was never clingy but now i feel like i probably broke us up as i was too distant. its probably too late to go back and try and be the girlfriend i never was but how can i get him back. he still speaks to me but then i get told about him hooking up with other girls. he still tells me he loves me but only when he feels like it. i feel like im his last resort or hes too immature to cope with his feelings and likes the signle life. shall i try and get over him or really try and get him back, eiter way i want a firm plan so i dont have the same issue this time next year!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010): well the real question you need to ask yourself is, do i still love this man? a good way to tell if you still have feelings for him is if you get jealous when you hear about him with other women. he might just be trying to get over you though but it doesnt really sound so. im sorry, but to me it doesnt sound like he feels anything for you anymore and that he is just leaving you hanging for whenever he feels like picking you up. that is the wrong type of guy, that is the type that will pretend to love you or even cheat. i honestly think you should move on, there is so many more man out there and sometimes you just need to wait and really choose carefully. there is nothing worse than being in a relationship always wondering if your bf really likes you or not knowing if you love him as much as you should. i hope this helped:) xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010): I think it's time you move on with your life. It sounds like he is just playing with your feelings. If he really loved you, he would be back together with you and trying to work things out, instead of going out with a bunch of other girls. I don't think he is coming back to you, and even if he was, do you really want to be sitting there waiting for him forever? No way!
I know it's hard, but try to focus on yourself and heal. If you think you made mistakes, try to learn and grow from them. You're so young, and you have so much ahead of you; remember that. There are a lot of guys out there, and you will find someone new who can and will return your feelings. Then you can have a good laugh when your ex realizes you aren't his plaything anymore and he is all alone. :)
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